The Secrets of Letting Go: Opening to Abundance!

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By Aine Belton

(Creator of the Miracle Mind Manifesting Program

www.miraclemanifestingprogram.com)





Letting go is important for attracting and allowing abundance into your life!



I recently did a letting go ‘ritual' that involved writing down that which I wanted to let go of and burning the paper (more tips on that further below).



Holding on, be it to negative or positive things, blocks our ability to receive in the present and mars our abundance.



You may be holding on to grievances, hurts, resentments or upsets from your past, or you may be holding on to positive things, such as qualities from past relationships or friendships, which prevent those very qualities showing up in the present.



You may be holding on to negative attitudes, habits, beliefs or thought-feeling patterns.



Perhaps you are holding on to a way life ‘should be’, to expectations, rules or demands towards yourself, others or life, that hinders acceptance and the magic of flow that allows life to change and evolve to a higher level.



The more ‘needy’ you are of something, or of a situation or person to be a certain way, the more you will repel it, for the universe wishes to free you from your dependency and remind you that what you seek does not lie ‘out there’, and that you are the source of your reality. Nothing changes until you do.



Desire, on the other hand, is a healthy generative emotion and is different to need. Your desire calls forth and attracts.



Feel your desires and the qualities you seek (why you want something and the positive emotions and qualities around that, such as the love, success, happiness, freedom, joy, etc.), and then let go of the outcome or the form of that outcome.



If it is a relationship you desire, for example, let go of any specifics about who that person should be, and be open to receiving that which is for your highest good and in alignment with your desires and the qualities you are emanating (which you do in the Manifesting Blueprint Meditation).



Trust the universe will bring you what is most appropriate for you and in alignment with your highest path.



Obviously you also want to have beliefs that support the outcomes you seek, and have positive expectation and imagination towards that realization of your heart’s desires. It is important, however, not to become too fixated or control-oriented about how things should be.



Trust, acceptance and humility are antidotes here.



Sometime the universe has something in mind for us that will serve us greater and more holistically than our limited viewpoint is aware of, something that will assist our healing, growth and soul’s purpose. We may need to let go of our preconceived expectations to allow the unknown and its gifts to land in our reality.



Letting go creates the space for something new and something beyond our imagination and expectation.